In my previous blog “Journey Through A Pakistani Girl’s Wedding – The Rasam“, I took you along with me to a Pakistani girl’s rasam i.e a pre-engagement event. So what next?
Before I tell you what happens next, Let’s introduce the stereotype of Pakistanis being married within the family.
Now you must have been meeting this guy and their family since your childhood as they are your relatives. You must have been practically been raised by his parents and don’t even start me on the fact that as kids, you both played hide and seek and HE ALWAYS PULLED YOUR PONYTAIL FROM BEHIND LIKE IT WAS HIS GODDAMN PURPOSE OF EXISTENCE ON THIS EARTH.
You hated him for doing it.
You both stayed up late nights playing board games while your parents chit chatted in other room, you both had millions of fights and you little miss not-so-innocent always sneaked up for his candy……
You become his fiancée. His parents become your in-laws. And now, everything changes. All the matrixes of your life changes. Continue reading